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5/3/2011

Ok, here's the part where you get to get advice from me. Remember: If you need advice for something embarrassing don't be afraid to share it because other girls might have the same problem. Also if you feel unconfertable saying your name just post from anonymous. I'll respond as soon as possible. Good luck posting!

39 Comments

erika sipos

5/4/2011 05:41:32 am

hi i is me erika. i have a HUGE crush on a boy named dylan. he is in my class this year. how do i get him to hang-out with me more at school?

5/4/2011 06:02:47 am

Hi erika!
thanks for commenting!
OK,with this boy...dylan
boys aren't exactly in love
at this age but pretend your not interested. Also If he looks at you with goo-goo eyes you know he likes
you. Just be yourself!

Latsta link

5/4/2011 06:19:06 am

What's up, V! Hey, I'm here to ask you one vital question since the boys in my class are public stalkers. How do you think I could stop them from annoying me?

erika

5/4/2011 06:21:50 am

one of my xfriends is in my class. and my old but nice friend is in my class. the x one is mean and i don;t want to be her friend. i want to be with the other one. so i am sandwhiched. what do i do now?

5/4/2011 06:32:55 am

Hi Latsta!
Thanks for commenting!
I've had some experiace with this type of situation. Say "exscuse me but a little privacy here!" and don't be afraid to get sassy! If they still won't stop stalking you tell an adult you trust and ask her/him that if they see them doing it tell them to keep an eye on them. Also when your talking privatly pull the person your talking with into a corner. That's what I always do!

Samantha

5/4/2011 08:11:59 am

So your having a stalker problem- here's what you do. YOU IGNORE THEM!!! If you ignore them, I promise, they will ignore you. Swear, it works every time, no matter who the boy is.

erika link

5/5/2011 05:46:51 am

so, i was wondering if u can give me some advice about how to say no. what i mean is, if u need to go somewhere or do something and someone asks u if u can help them,and u say yes but u can't do the thing, then what r u supposed to do? i get stuck in it alllllll the time. even with my teacher. how do i say no?

5/5/2011 08:56:32 am

Hi Erika,
ok first with the xfriend
1. thank you,first, for explaning to me what you ment by e-mail (see people this is why it's important to put your e-mail in case I have to contact you about your question) now tell your old friend that you want her to stop being mean to the mean friend because it will come back and it will hurt! Next tell the girl you don't want to be frends with that you don't want to be friends with her. Ask her if mabye you can be buddies. And ask your old friend if she want to be friends with you. Tell her you want to be friend with her. First start with simply hanging out then if things go relly well you know your ment to be friends.

5/5/2011 09:06:10 am

Hi Erika,
Wow how to say "no"? That's a tough one! Thats one of the most important thing a girl should know. I know your afraid that it's rude to say it but some time you just have to. Practice saying something you want to say "no" to in front of a mirror. Then when the time comes and you want to say it just say the simple word..."No".

Francesca

5/12/2011 08:13:36 am

Hi V.
Question- What happens if a boy likes you but you don't like him back

5/14/2011 10:13:31 pm

Hi Francesca,
Ok first of all do you know he likes you, like, for sure? If yes then on to the next step, confront him and tell him but don't be harsh or it will really backfire and come back. Confronting him is all about the way you tell him

-V

Carlos

5/15/2011 04:38:16 am

Hi. My name is Carlos.I have girl troubles. I really like this girl Michelle but i dont think she likes me. V i REALLY need help. Shez so nice and sweet and shes just.. Outstanding! So help me. thks. bYe ByE

5/15/2011 06:36:53 am

Hi carlos,
ok, first find out if she likes you if you see her making goo-goo eye's at you it's a definate yes. If not, well you can't change a person to like you. Just be yourself. And don't show your feelings that much because you can also get teased or made fun of.

thanks for commenting
-V

Shenequa

5/15/2011 09:09:03 am

Hi v I was wondren if u could give me any advice on frendship issues thanks!

Shenequa

Julie

5/16/2011 08:08:07 am

Hey V! I actually have prooblems with my friends like Shenequa. My friends are always making fun of my brother because he has issues. I keep telling them to stop, but they dont!

Please help, V! I need it desperatley!

-Julie Hart <3

Julie

5/17/2011 05:53:17 am

Also, I have problems like Carlos exept vice versa. Its with a guy. He's SO hot and I really like him but IDK if he likes me. Help!

-Julie Hart<3

5/17/2011 08:40:12 am

Hi Shenequa,
Friendship issues hmmmm...
please tell what kind of issues are going on so I can be more specific.
-V

5/17/2011 08:43:07 am

Hi Julie,
WHOA! Drop everything and go to a teacher you trust! They have no right to be bulling your brother! Tell the teacher what they have been doing and ask her to talk to them if they don't stop.

5/17/2011 08:45:00 am

Hi Julie,
With your second problem please read erica's first question and answers. Please do the same with carlos. then if it doesn't help conntact me agian.

-V

Julie

5/18/2011 08:30:49 am

thanks, V everthing worked out :)

julie hart <3

Shenequa

5/18/2011 08:32:59 am

Well, i have a friend who has different issues and things arent really working out anymore and i think we need to take a break. how can i tell her that without breaking her heart?

5/19/2011 06:30:46 am

Hi shenequa,
Be very gentle when you tell her this and tell her why you want to do this. Good Luck!

-V

me link

7/28/2011 07:00:06 am

how do you get sooooooo many people to go on your site!!!!!!!

8/3/2011 08:31:25 am

Dear me,
Post your site on other websites and tell friends and ask to pass on the site.
thanks,
V

Sara

11/24/2011 09:25:15 am

Hi V, i'm sara Celmentin from florida. Everybody says that my boyfriend is going to dump me because he likes this other girl caroline... i dont know if i should confront him, dump him first or do nothing! i dont know what to do because he hasn't been acting strange... hes actually been acting quite nicely lately... help!

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12/9/2011 04:55:47 am

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please help me v thank you very much so

2/22/2012 07:28:13 am

Hi Sara,
Just wait it out and see what happens. But be sure to be prepared for him to dump you. If you don't want to wait, its ok to confront him. But be careful! Make sure its alone. And if he does dump you, don't start begging him to come back. That will just make things awkward and worse.
Thanks for asking,
V

Alice Q. Runterenstein link

3/30/2012 10:23:51 am

Dear my beloved friend v,
I have been having drastical promlems lately. First. my so called "friends" turned their backs on me....i am soooo sad. Second of all, my technological device broke down and that's why i couldnt get to you sooner. Hope u get back to me soon, friend.
your pal,
Al

4/8/2012 04:25:21 am

Hey Alice,
First I am really sorry you are going through this. This happenes to almost everyone (Yes it has happenned to me!). If you ahve been freinds for years and this is happening. This isn't normal. Someone could be telling your friend to do this. Talk to her. If she tells you things aren't working out then be matre and deal with it. Try and find a group of friends who will stick by you know matter what. That sounds a lot like what happened to me. Now I have a group of friends who will stand up for me and stick by me. Hope my advice helps!
Thanks for asking
V

Liv Ingroom link

5/29/2012 07:46:42 am

yo. im sad. my bffbfbffbfffbbbbbbbffff makes me feel like im a rock. she acts like i dont exist anymore!!!
pretty please please make it better. im counting on you!!!love and books,
Livvy <3

soph

6/3/2012 06:26:16 am

Same here!!!

soph

6/3/2012 06:13:30 am

Hey V, my 2 friends hate each other and i dont no who to hang out with at recess. Help me!!

7/15/2012 06:58:39 am

Dear Liv Ingroon,
The same thing happend to me. Confront your friend and tell her how you feel. If this doesnt stop confront her again. Then if not you must have had a break in your friendship. Find some new friends who will always stick with you.
Thanks for comenting,
V

7/15/2012 07:06:27 am

Dear Soph,
I am really sorry this is happinging. I bet you feel stuck in the middle. Learn both sides of the story but don't side with anyone. then get both of your friends together (but plan what you will say first). Have them talk it out if they start yelling break it up but keep trying. Also do this alone so if you cant control the yelling. Hope this helps and keep in touch!
Thanks for commenting,
V

soph

8/5/2012 12:51:40 am

thx<your advice really helped< by the way i think i met u at skating camp(u know my cousin

soph

11/29/2012 05:08:04 am

hi V, i am in a little group with four friends, 2 of them always tells secrets and gets mad so easy even if i didnt do anything. i need serious advice!!!

12/2/2012 05:39:20 am

Hey Soph,
Let them know that they are overreacting and see if you can help them with that little issue. Also with the secrets, that might mean that they have bonded a lot but if you are feeling left out let them know. Also if you want to be in on these secrets, them you should all plan a sleepover or something and get to know each other better. You may find out more about them and you may find some things in common that you didn't know you both liked! Hoped this helped!
Thanks for commenting
-V

soph

1/26/2013 08:41:00 pm

thx v< this really helped now we r telling eachhother everything

Christy

7/16/2015 07:52:31 am

hey v, I had some problems a couple years ago and I found this website to be very helpful when I read the advice you gave others it really helped me! I now have a new prob! everyone in the whole grade is laughing me when I walk through the halls and I don't understand why?! pretty please help me ASAP!

love, chris

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